stay in or moved out???

stay in or moved out??? this is the question i have been struggling with eversince i got to know that my mom won't allow me to stay with one of my relatives anymore...reason?? cause she doesn't want me to burden my relatives further as my relative (according to my mom) got enough of her own burdens....anyway,there are pro and cons of staying in and out..i will list it all down here

Pros of moving out

1. don't have to travel so far
2. save petrol and toll fees
3. personal time
4. gain total independence and freedom
5. won't be too tired when it comes to work

Pros of staying in

1. stay closer to family
2. save more (only pay for petrol,toll,car installment,insurance and mom)
3. free astro,internet,laundry and newspapers..yup,i like reading newspapers :)
4. homecooked food
5. receive lots of TLC= Tender, Loving, Care from mom and dad =) plus can have happy times with my bro and sis as well....
6. don't have to hear all the gossips and b*tching about other ppl which i have enough of it when i'm staying in the hostel


Cons of moving out

1. have to pay more for room rental, petrol, car installment,food,water/electricity bill,internet
2. eat outside food (if i'm too tired or lazy to cook)
3. can't see my family every day
4. not so much entertainment(only got internet but no tv..btw,i'm a tv addict esp when it comes to AXN n AOD-i get to watch all the lastest TVB dramas)

Cons of staying in

1. Lack of personal time
2. can't meet up with my frens much often


yup...this is the list that i have made...after seeing the list that i have made, i can conlude that the pros of staying in exceeds more than the cons..even i feel like its better to stay at home than moving out...anyway,just have to continue to pray and seek God's answer on whether i should moved out or not....